Here Are Some Tips About Passive Aggressive People

By Francis Hosein

Is your relationship having trouble in moving ahead easily and you do not understand what is going on?

Partner not suspecting

Have you ever thought that your partner is a passive aggressive which is to say the person does not come out and say no to you and behind your back resist and sabotage every step you make and not that they do not care they do and it is easier to resist because they have much anger and unresolved problems from the past.

Avoid Responsibility

Passive aggressive have the ability to avoid responsibility by doing the opposite that they say they will do.

They have the ability to suddenly forget what they promise what they say they will do.

What your partner says

You do not come out and say that you disagree with what your partner says you simply just do not do it as a passive aggressive.

Solutions from your partner will not work if you are comfortable with being a victim.

Putting up barriers

Passive aggressive put up barriers when they do not want to do something even when it is helpful to the couple, they will say yes and go behind your back and sabotage what you want to do.

As a passive aggressive you may have many other reasons why what ever your partner suggest will not work which brings you more delight.

Passive aggressive do not take responsibility for the problems in their relationship nor suggest alternative solution because you are looking for the perfect solution.

Hold resentment

Passive aggressive people in general are stubborn and hold resentment and may sometimes act helpless.

Because of their passiveness they sometimes trigger anger in others close to them.

They lack assertiveness and rely on the people close to them and most of the time they get into dependency relationships.

They also have difficulty with taking responsibility because of their fear of failure.

They are generally perfectionist and no one can do it well as them no matter what it is.

Many difficulties with passive aggressive people are they have unresolved anger because of childhood wound that is not resolve.

Problems that were not solved are brought into the new relationship and this creates codependency.

Passive aggressive people feel as a victim and do not understand why they are misunderstood.

How to help

How to help passive aggressiveness people is to focus on the behavior and not the person.

Dont blame or attack the passive aggressive person when you need to say something it will push them away from you.

Focus on one thing at a time and have a time limit because they have a tendency to leave mentally when it is too much.

Hold them accountable for their words and action by starting with small things.

Know your boundaries and stick to it, it takes time for a passive aggressive person to get help or to realize they have a problem and your job is not to do it for them only guide them to get help.

Conclusion :

Passive aggressive people focuses on sabotaging you if it is not in their favor, knowing this is a step forward in getting to a solution that can help both persons.

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